Hips a few times you fumble in front of the mirror and keep pondering over whether to go to a party or not. Just thinking of meeting, greeting many people, appearing in front of a crowd … is that you feel depressed and very shy, and do not want to participate. Shyness and lack of confidence in communication.
Prepare yourself well
People who are shy before appearing in a crowded place will be quite stressed. They can spend a lot of time making up, standing in front of the mirror, looking at them, choosing the outfits… which show the “best”. You stress, think about what to say, …
This stress and over-preparation unknowingly increase the pressure on you, making you even tenser and embarrassed when going to a crowded place. Relax, prepare comfortably. Choose clothes that are appropriate for the event and appropriate for the age and person you will come into contact with. Do not dress too old when going to a place full of dynamic and stylish young people. And remember, do not wear clothes that make you uncomfortable just because they are beautiful or your friends advise you to wear it … The discomfort from outfits is a huge cause that prevents you from confidently communicating with others.
Always look straight and ready to smile
Practice walking straight, looking directly at the other person. No matter how nervous or anxious you are, don’t show it to others because once others think you lack confidence, you won’t feel natural when you talk to them. In a crowded place, smile and greet everyone in a friendly manner. If you look someone in the eye 10 steps away, show a friendly smile by nodding or smiling.
If there are only a few feet left and there is enough room for two people to talk, greet them. Even people you do not know, you can greet them with a friendly greeting and initiate an acquaintance by saying “you look familiar, where did you seem to meet …” Give them a reason to greet them like a person. acquainted. At first this may seem difficult and awkward, but once you get to know about 2 people, you will find that talking to a stranger isn’t as difficult as you think. When you practice like that, when you go to a crowded place like a party, speaking skills in public will be a no hindrance to you.
With many conferences and events, you may not know anyone, and you have to learn to chat with a stranger so you don’t have to stand alone: you will look unnatural and out of place. . Find yourself a good match and make you a little interested in talking. Watch out for people who are alone like you and they are not too busy for anything. Natural conversation is the best tip for confidently communicating in public.
People will find it easier to be close to others when they have something to say so prepare your story before you speak. In a crowd, certain events, the venue will be a common feature to unite strangers. Prepare a few points so you can talk to others about those common traits. Note that the topic of conversation should be general, do not fall into any field because it may be an area where the other person is not fluent.
If you find it too difficult, find friends and acquaintances
You lose your temper and cannot go to an event alone. Get in touch with your friends first and invite them to join you. At least you are off to a pretty good start by blending into the crowd. After that, you can chat with friends of friends, acquaintances, … then when you have gradually caught up with the conversations, you can communicate with strangers more easily and less awkwardly.
However, do not rely on the appearance of your friends. Try to attend an event or conference yourself. You will find appearing in a crowd that is not as horrible as I thought. Give yourself many opportunities to speak in public confidently! That will be the beginning of business relationships and a significant decision on the success or failure of each person in the career path.